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Re: What to do about...
« Reply #17 on: July 08, 2008, 05:54 PM »
Quote from: funfly on July 08, 2008, 02:05 PM
I started as Fun Fly....but I switched over to Funfly VMK so I could find myself with VMK'ers

Just signed on and added you, although I wasn't able to see anything -- ended up with a blue screen for my room. Stalker boy messaged me... :yawn:
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Re: What to do about...
« Reply #18 on: July 08, 2008, 06:41 PM »
Quote from: AmberDaze on July 08, 2008, 05:54 PM
Stalker boy messaged me... :yawn:


:ahh:  So sorry to hear that gf  :hitwall:
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Re: What to do about...
« Reply #19 on: July 08, 2008, 07:04 PM »
Quote from: AmberDaze on July 08, 2008, 05:54 PM
Quote from: funfly on July 08, 2008, 02:05 PM
I started as Fun Fly....but I switched over to Funfly VMK so I could find myself with VMK'ers

Just signed on and added you, although I wasn't able to see anything -- ended up with a blue screen for my room. Stalker boy messaged me... :yawn:

Aww boo.i!  Maybe he need to have a chat with Maxx Power. 
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Re: What to do about...
« Reply #20 on: July 08, 2008, 07:59 PM »
Quote from: souper_happy on July 08, 2008, 07:04 PM
Quote from: AmberDaze on July 08, 2008, 05:54 PM
Quote from: funfly on July 08, 2008, 02:05 PM
I started as Fun Fly....but I switched over to Funfly VMK so I could find myself with VMK'ers

Just signed on and added you, although I wasn't able to see anything -- ended up with a blue screen for my room. Stalker boy messaged me... :yawn:

Aww boo.i!  Maybe he need to have a chat with Maxx Power. 

ROFL I wish Maxx would log on! I think his new wood shop project has taken his priorities elsewhere. But at least I'll have that chest of drawers I've been wanting!  :woot:
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Re: What to do about...
« Reply #21 on: July 08, 2008, 08:12 PM »
Quote from: AmberDaze on July 08, 2008, 07:59 PM
Quote from: souper_happy on July 08, 2008, 07:04 PM
Quote from: AmberDaze on July 08, 2008, 05:54 PM
Quote from: funfly on July 08, 2008, 02:05 PM
I started as Fun Fly....but I switched over to Funfly VMK so I could find myself with VMK'ers

Just signed on and added you, although I wasn't able to see anything -- ended up with a blue screen for my room. Stalker boy messaged me... :yawn:

Aww boo.i!  Maybe he need to have a chat with Maxx Power. 

ROFL I wish Maxx would log on! I think his new wood shop project has taken his priorities elsewhere. But at least I'll have that chest of drawers I've been wanting!  :woot:

Thanks for adding me....shucks, maybe we need to form a group to "visit"  :boxing: your stalker
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Re: What to do about...
« Reply #22 on: July 08, 2008, 08:28 PM »
Days,

  I know you wouldn't want to hurt anyone's feelings, but in this case I think you might have to end up going with point blank honesty.  Try to word it as nicely as you can, but be firm in that you do not want him to contact you anymore and that you will not be responding.  And then stick to it. 
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Re: What to do about...
« Reply #23 on: July 09, 2008, 03:25 PM »
Quote from: DisKatDisKat on July 08, 2008, 08:28 PM
Days,

  I know you wouldn't want to hurt anyone's feelings, but in this case I think you might have to end up going with point blank honesty.  Try to word it as nicely as you can, but be firm in that you do not want him to contact you anymore and that you will not be responding.  And then stick to it. 

 :hug: Hugs Days. I agree with Kat on this and if that doesn't work, we will have to send "KingGasATac" in to take care of business.  :gas7:

But in all seriousness, sorry this is happening to you. Sigh, these people just pop up everywhere. Hugs again.  :hug:
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Re: What to do about...
« Reply #24 on: July 09, 2008, 06:09 PM »
Hugs to everyone.  :hug: I have never been in this situation...I soooo hate being mean to anyone, even if they're annoying rofl. I just signed on and sent this message to him:

"I think it would be best if we not message each other anymore.  Thank you for the gesture, but I've returned your flowers. I hope you will be understanding of my decision."

It sounds so mean, but I truly don't see any reason to keep in touch with someone who makes me dread going out into any of the public areas or other friends' rooms.

Sigh, just got an email saying he sent me a message. I haven't received it yet in SW, so I'll let you know when I get it. It shows he isn't respecting my decision....sigh
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Re: What to do about...
« Reply #25 on: July 09, 2008, 06:11 PM »
OK, I just got his message...I am so laughing right now. Here's what he said, "ok can we be friends though."

Is it just me, or do I detect an airflow where there shouldn't be?  :rofl3:
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Re: What to do about...
« Reply #26 on: July 09, 2008, 08:34 PM »
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Well Days, I know how much you enjoy SW, other than this one situation.  Hopefully he will take the hint  :gavel: and give you some space. 

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Re: What to do about...
« Reply #27 on: July 09, 2008, 08:43 PM »
Yes gf, there is a draft, not an airflow!

At this time you really need to not respond.  Let it go, at least he will apparently stop sending gifts.. and it "could be" taken that he did get the drift.. and just wanted to acknowledge getting it.

I know, probably not.. but for sure if you reply, he will continue.

Believe me on that.. after my stalker!
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Re: What to do about...
« Reply #28 on: July 10, 2008, 12:31 PM »
So very sorry to hear about your "stocker", Days.  I hope things get back to normal soon for you in SW.   :hug:
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Re: What to do about...
« Reply #29 on: July 13, 2008, 11:32 AM »
Woot! 3 days and no message!  :yes!:
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Re: What to do about...
« Reply #30 on: July 13, 2008, 03:09 PM »
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Woot! 3 days and no message!  :yes!:

:wavet:  See?  Stick to it girl!! Congrats ;)  (now, about the one that wants the painting.. :lolg: )
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Re: What to do about...
« Reply #31 on: July 13, 2008, 04:23 PM »
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Woot! 3 days and no message!  :yes!:

:wavet:  See?  Stick to it girl!! Congrats ;)  (now, about the one that wants the painting.. :lolg: )


Woot Days!  Congrats!

LoL Ducky!  Too bad Days can't use those nice "boots" of hers, without being in her own space, that I've already seen in action. 
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Re: What to do about...
« Reply #32 on: July 18, 2008, 11:35 AM »
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Sometimes a simple knee to the groin is effective. :hmmmm:

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Note he recomended a tactical nuclear weapon or blowing his head off first and only then - if that failed...although yeah, we will be speaking to papaduck about this unauthorized disclosure :notme:

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