I put my house (sad as it may be) in my profile so you can visit. But apparently lots fill up in like a few hours. have to work as team to get together. Its a little tricky but you can use the world directory to find friends houses but it is bad. Days is the expert - so she may know better ways.
This is from my guide in the Tips section:
Everyone has a link to their house address -- if you're in the HOUSE area, click on the link below "Share my home." Just PM the address to all your friends. The bad thing is, you can only have 5 links to your friends' homes in your Directory. What I did, is paste my friends' house URLs into a txt file and saved it on my computer. This way you can save as many as you like, then just cut and paste it into your browser. Woot!
If you know someone's profile and if their house is unlocked, you can always get in. If someone has their house set to "friends only," then you can only get in if you're a friend. If someone's house is locked, you cannot get in.
For example, my house is set to "friends only." If you know someone's profile, you can get into their house. My profile link is
http://www.gaiaonline.com/profiles/10113922My house link is
http://www.gaiaonline.com/homes/?user=10113922 (I'm currently plotless, so you shouldn't be able to get in)
All you have to do is change the number that comes after "user=" to the same number that is in the profile of the person's house you wish to visit. Then put that link into your browser location bar.
MY GAIA --> MY HOUSE --> Once you're inside your own house, click on Directory. This will show you a map, and your house lot will be blinking. If you click on ZOOM OUT on the top left, you can search for other areas in Gaia Towns. You can also look for an empty lot if you haven't placed your house yet, or view population in each area -- if you click on VIEW POPULATION and hover your cursor over the boxes, you will see how many ppl are in each instance. Red areas have more ppl. If you want to stay in your house after viewing the Directory, just click close on the bottom right.
By the way, you can also make your house open only to friends if you want (highly suggestible). In your HOUSE window, there are preferences listed at the bottom. You can also go into your ACCOUNT area from MY GAIA.
By the way we are all there at 2 am - some of us may be asleep - but we are there.
*Cough* I have no idea what you're talking about.